I feel like my relationship is going down the drain. I love my girlfriend and i tell her that several times everyday but we seem to get into repeated fights and that seems to be slowly tearing us apart and it hurts. These fights usually start over nothing and end up being about everything.
I trust her a lot but sometimes i get jealous and nervous because i feel like she is going to cheat on me or go drinking and end up doing something that will create a huge impact on our relationship. It just scares me because i care about her so much and i try to tell her this but i don't know how to show her how much i care and want to be with her.
Every time i finally feel like she is starting to understand how much i care we seem to get in another fight that always ends up worse then the last. i have this to deal with and at the same time juggling all of my school courses and the rest of the stuff going on in my life and it's just way too overwhelming :'( Please post back with some suggestions or advice, it would be much appreciated, Thanks.
-Confined
Hello Confined,
ReplyDeleteIt sounds like your going through quite alot right now and it take alot of courage to reach out for help. We are glad you posted on this blog as it shows your resiliency and strength! We would like to let you know that its ok to feel overwhelmed and that your not alone in saying this.
When you say that you are getting into fights with your girlfriend, can you tell use more about this? We are concerned for your safety and want to know if you have a plan in place to ensure your safety in the future?
Finally how would you like things to pan out in the future? What may be some things you can do to cope with feelings of being overwhelmed if things like this happen in the future?
Stay strong Confined!
Support Team